Get the behavior you want--without being the parent you hate! : Dr. G's guide to effective parenting / Deborah Gilboa, MD.
Gilboa offers a roadmap of quick concrete ways to help parents use everyday opportunities to create respectful, responsible, and resilient children.
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- ISBN: 9781936303717
- ISBN: 193630371X
- Physical Description: xvii, 252 pages ; 23 cm
- Publisher: New York : Demos Health, [2014]
- Copyright: ©2014
Content descriptions
General Note: | Includes index. |
Formatted Contents Note: | Introduction -- Respect: That's my kid! -- Responsibility: Count on it -- Resilience: Raising problem solvers -- Making change happen: how to actually get kids to do this stuff -- Conclusion: You know what you want. |
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Subject: | Parenting. Parent and child. Child psychology. |
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Get the Behavior You Want--Without Being the Parent You Hate! : Dr. G's Guide to Effective Parenting
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Get the Behavior You Want--Without Being the Parent You Hate! : Dr. G's Guide to Effective Parenting
Section | Section Description | Page Number |
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Introduction | p. xiii | |
Part I | Respect: That's My Kid! | |
1 | Respect: Why Bother? | p. 3 |
2 | Who's Got Your Vote to Run the House? | p. 6 |
3 | Teaching the Skill of Self-Respect | p. 10 |
4 | Treat Family Even Better | p. 16 |
5 | Spoiler Alert: What You Do Is More Important than How You Feel | p. 19 |
6 | Manners Matter | p. 23 |
7 | Build Respect with Every Meal | p. 25 |
8 | Raising Good Hosts | p. 28 |
9 | Raising Good Guests | p. 31 |
10 | Titles Matter | p. 33 |
11 | Teach the Verbal Communication Secrets | p. 35 |
12 | Teach the Nonverbal Communication Secrets | p. 37 |
13 | Teach Your Kids to Talk to Strangers | p. 39 |
14 | Seek Out Diversity | p. 41 |
15 | But What about Your Kids' Friends? | p. 43 |
16 | Your Bedroom as Your Sanctuary | p. 46 |
Part II | Responsibility: Count on It | |
17 | Responsibility: Building a Great Work Ethic | p. 51 |
18 | Relying on You | p. 53 |
19 | Teach Kids to Get Themselves Clean | p. 55 |
20 | Teach Kids to Get Themselves Dressed | p. 58 |
21 | Teach Kids to Get Themselves Fed | p. 61 |
22 | Teach Kids to Get Themselves Fit | p. 64 |
23 | Chores: Good for You and Them | p. 67 |
24 | Homework: It's Magic | p. 73 |
25 | Practice, Practice, Practice: The Perks and the Pitfalls | p. 77 |
26 | Money, Money, Money, Money: Allowance | p. 81 |
27 | Technology: Make It a Force for Good | p. 85 |
28 | Forms: Don't Fill 'Em Out! | p. 90 |
19 | Paying It Forward: Making the World a Better Place | p. 93 |
30 | Take Your (Actual) Medicine | p. 98 |
31 | How Can I Help? What Else Can I Do? | p. 101 |
Part III | Resilience: Raising Problem Solvers | |
32 | Resilience: Take One Step Back | p. 105 |
33 | Find Resilience Opportunities | p. 110 |
34 | Get Off the Happiness Hook | p. 114 |
35 | Asking for Help | p. 116 |
36 | "I'm Booooooooorrrrrreeeed!": Free lime Management | p. 119 |
37 | Playtlates and Sleepovers and Trips, Oh My! | p. 122 |
38 | Mom, She's Bugging Me!: Sibling Management | p. 127 |
39 | They're Mean!: Friend Management | p. 134 |
40 | They're Strict!: Teacher Management | p. 141 |
41 | They're Unfair!: Coach/Instructor Management | p. 146 |
42 | Somebody Has a Girlfriend!: Relationship Management | p. 149 |
43 | Take a Chance | p. 155 |
44 | Bad Things Happen | p. 159 |
45 | Failure Builds Success | p. 164 |
Part IV | Making Change Happen: How to Actually Get Kids to Do This Stuff | |
46 | Can Your Kids Count on You? | p. 169 |
47 | How to Avoid Being the Parent You Hate | p. 174 |
48 | Say "No": You Won't Regret It | p. 178 |
49 | Hurting the One You Love | p. 180 |
50 | Do One Thing and Do It Well | p. 183 |
51 | The Family Meeting | p. 188 |
52 | Consistency: Planting the Flag | p. 191 |
53 | It's Still a Gift if You Ask for It | p. 195 |
54 | Lying Is a Separate Problem | p. 199 |
55 | Let Life Teach the Lesson | p. 204 |
56 | Nonresponse: I'm Not Ignoring You ... | p. 209 |
57 | Separation: We Now Interrupt Our Regularly Scheduled Programming ... | p. 213 |
58 | Reminding: Did You Do That Yet? | p. 218 |
59 | Rights vs Privileges | p. 223 |
60 | Keep Your Focus Positive | p. 228 |
61 | Surprising Consequences | p. 230 |
62 | Admire Your Kids | p. 232 |
63 | The Power of Love | p. 235 |
Conclusion: You Know What You Want | p. 239 | |
Acknowledgments | p. 241 | |
Index | p. 244 |